Having just gone through a divorce and fighting non-stop with my
ex-wife about custody and visitation I can honestly say I learned one
thing. Your ex-spouse is always insane and they are always wrong and
they are always a worse parent than you are. Sadly both of you are
saying the same thing so it makes it difficult to get anything done. I
finally woke up one day and came to piece with the fact that my ex would
never parent the same way I did but in the end was it really that bad?
Does there always have to be a right and a wrong. Maybe some things in
life are just different. Not better or worse but simply different.
Not knowing the specifics of the parental situation in the celebrity
war of words I can only give one small piece of advice. In a battle of
this nature there is really only one loser, the kids. The children are
the ones who suffer. They get torn from the fact that their mom and
dad, the two people they love more than life itself are mean horrible
people to each other. It just does more damage than good. I guess
since my wife was not a drug addicted porn star at any point in her life
the situation is slightly different but the results will most likely be
the same. sandra bullock
